Think about this for a second.

Every day in the morning the sun will come up in the same place and it will set at the same place each night.

The stars have their own distinct place in the night sky; they don’t move about or gather up in one corner when you look up at them.

And every day the sea comes in and then goes out again.

All these things we tend to take for granted because we know that they are meant to be.  These things will just happen; we don’t question why they happen in this way, but we simply accept it as being so.   

In truth everything has its place on this earth; everything knows what to do and how it should be done.  It has been decided that things will happen if only for the very reason that it is the right thing to happen, has it not?

So why is it that we think that the things that happen to us are our bad luck or that someone else is responsible for hurting us or causing havoc in our lives?

I know it seems hard to accept; but everything is meant to be, and all the things that have happened to you will have gone towards making you who you are right now, and the person you have become. You don’t just wake up as who you are, but you have to evolve, just as the universe did, and this takes time.  Needless to say it doesn’t take as long as for us to evolve as it took planet earth, but it will take time all the same.

The planet earth that we live on has been smashed into by asteroids and  projectiles for millions of years,  nearly destroying it.

But out of this carnage came something better; something stronger and more beautiful than before, and it happened because of that experience and because of what happened, and that is precisely how it should be with us.

Those people who come into our lives and who hurt us,  who arrive crashing into our existence and causing destruction are no less worthy than the ones who love us and give us what we want and need.  Because these people can make us stronger and change our personal landscape to something more wonderful than what was there for us before they came into our life.  The struggle for us is to see this and to not resent them for their action and for what they have done to us.

The trick is to not take it on as being personal but to see it as something that has happened, and then to let it go.  If you can let the feeling of being the victim go then you can heal from any attack no matter who the culprit is, and it won’t even matter how personally close they were to you.  If you can move away from the attack then you will see the lesson that it is showing you.

When you can see that what has happened to you can change you into something different, someone better and even more wonderful than you were before, then you will start to see that everyone is an angel sent to you because you needed them.  You will see that everything that happens to you will become a miracle.

It’s been scientifically proven that the same material that goes to make up this planet and this universe also makes us what we are today.  We are all capable of crashing into things and destroying other heavenly bodies and in the past we may well have done so to some degree or other.  But remember that the moon is still a beautiful thing on a clear night and we can all see the beauty in the beast if we look